ZHONG GUO REN

I just took a Colorquiz. The results, as always, are eeriely correct.

Mom woke me up with a phone call this morning. She told me to call her around 10am, when they finish having dinner, so that I can say hi to my grandma. They finished dinner at 9 instead. After a bit of semi-conscious slurring in Fujianese with my grandma, and wishing my mom a happy mother’s day, I tumbled around my bed, read a bit, and then went back to sleep.

I didn’t sleep that well last night. Didn’t get to chat. I ended up reading chat logs from the past week. It wasn’t as good as the real thing.

Your Existing Situation

Insecure. Seeks roots, stability, emotional security, and an environment providing greater ease and fewer problems, but is either unwilling or unable to exert the effort.

Your Stress Sources

An existing situation is unsatisfactory but he feels unable to change it without cooperation; the need for understanding, for affectionate give-and-take remains unfulfilled. This not only depresses him but makes him irritable and impatient, producing restlessness and the urge to get away from the situation, either actually or, at least, mentally. Ability to concentrate may suffer.

Your Restrained Characteristics

Circumstances are restrictive and hampering, forcing him to forgo all joys and pleasures for the time being.

Your Desired Objective

Feels the existing circumstances are hostile and is exhausted by conflict and quarreling. Wishes to protect himself and hides his intentions to avoid exposing them to attack, so that they will be safer and easier to achieve. Careful to avoid stirring up any opposition which might endanger his plans.

Your Actual Problem

Anxiety and restless dissatisfaction, either with circumstances or with unfulfilled emotional requirements, have produced tension and stress. His attempt to escape from these consists of creating at least an outward semblance of peace by refusing to allow himself to be involved.

Your Actual Problem #2

Needs to protect himself against his tendency to be too trusting, as he finds it is liable to be misunderstood or exploited by others. As a result, he adopts a critical and stand-offish attitude, being willing to participate only where he can be assured of sincerity and trustworthiness.